How To Manifest a Boyfriend (in 5 Simple Steps)

Did you know you can actually manifest the boyfriend of your dreams by using the right methods of Law of Attraction? Yes, it is indeed possible.

The Law of Attraction states that we attract events based on our thoughts, feelings, and energies, so if you have positive energy you attract outcomes or events that are pleasant, whereas if you have negative energy you attract events that are sad and awful.

You have constantly been manifesting everything in your life without you even realising it.

And there is a correct way to manifest things and that is what this post is going to teach you so that you can manifest a boyfriend you have always wanted.

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How to Manifest a Boyfriend – (5 Simple Steps)

STEP 1: Get rid of limiting thoughts and feelings

The key to manifesting things is that you have to absolutely believe that this will work, the more sceptical you are, the more likely it won’t work.

You have to get rid of the thoughts like:

• This won’t work
• I’m too old for a relationship
• I’m too unattractive
• Will this really work ?
• I ruin relationships
• I won’t find my soulmate

And as mentioned earlier, the law of attraction works according to your thoughts whether it is positive or negative.

So in order for this to work you have to have faith in the universe, and be optimistic.

STEP 2: Recite positive/ love affirmations

Reciting positive affirmations is a great way to stop limiting thoughts and beliefs. This is really important that you do this before you even start to manifest

There is no point in manifesting something if you don’t even believe in yourself and what you are doing.

Repeating affirmations will help you calm your mind and soul and will make you feel good within and you will send out a high level of positive energies which will in your manifestation process.

Positive affirmations are just phrases that you have to repeat to yourself to battle your limiting beliefs.

The following are some examples of love affirmations  that you can use.

• I’m worthy of a relationship
• I’m an attractive person
• It is easy to find love
• I forgive myself for past mistakes
• I will enter in this relationship with open heart
• I love myself
• I am perfect the way I am 
• The more I love myself, the more i have to give to others
• My soulmate will come at the right time
• I’m attracting a trusting and loving relationship

STEP 3: Figure out why you want a boyfriend

The first step to manifest a boyfriend is to know why you want one in the first place, this will help you figure out how you are mentally.

Maybe the reason you want a boyfriend is that you are lonely, or you recently have been dumped by your ex, etc.

And, the Law of Attraction is all about you attracting things based on your feelings and vibrations.

If you are in a bad mental state you will unintentionally attract more negative events. So, you should first try focusing on improving your mental health first.

Grab a Manifestation Journal and start writing the reasons you want a relationship/boyfriend.

When writing the reasons make sure you are not writing reasons that make you look desperate.

Be calm, and think deeply about what exactly a relationship means to you. Are you looking for a fling or long term relationship ? This will help find your reasons.

STEP 4: Write the qualities you want in your ideal boyfriend.

The fourth step in manifesting a boyfriend is to write the qualities you want in your lover in the manifestation journal.

This step is really important because you have to mention what exactly you want from the universe.

The universe loves details and the more specific you are the better the outcomes will be. You can be as specific as you want.

Grab a Manifestation Journal and start writing the characteristics you want in your boyfriend. 

Some examples for this are: 

• He is tall
• He is kind
• He is blonde or brunette.
• He loves dogs
• He loves cats
• He likes my friend
• He loves me 
• He is ambitious 
• He checks up on me
• He brings positive vibes

These are just examples you can be as specific as you want (like name, age, skin colour) etc.

While writing the specific you should only mention the things you want in a boyfriend and not the things you don’t want.

This is because when we think about the things we don’t want, we start emitting negative energies unintentionally.

STEP 5: Visualise your relationship 

The next step in mainesting is to visualise how nice it feels to be in a relationship with this ideal person that you mentioned in your journal.

You have to experience the emotion of being in love even when that person is not actually there with you and visualisation is one of the best options to achieve that.

You will emit positive and high vibration energy through this practice which will also further improve your mental state.

To do this exercise:

• Find a quiet place, where you won’t be interrupted.
• Calm your mind and your body before your start the visualisation exercise
• Think about the person that you mentioned in journal and how amazing it makes you feel
• Do this exercise when you are free.

STEP 6: Detach From Your Desire and let the universe take care of the rest.

The last and the most important step in manifesting your desired boyfriend is to have faith in the universe and let go.

What this exactly means is that you don’t have to put so much emphasis on getting this desired person and trust in the greater power.

The more you dwell on these things, you emit desperate energies which will ultimately hinder your manifestation.

You have to be patient, even if it takes longer for you to get the desired outcome.

The universe is powerful and it will make things happen for you sooner or later.

Things You Should Be Aware about Manifesting Your Boyfriend

1. Love Yourself

Loving yourself is the most important thing you should do before you try to manifest a boyfriend.

You can’t expect to give love to others if you don’t even love yourself enough, moreover you will hamper your manifestation process.

2. Manifesting a celebrity most probably won’t work

Going big with your expectations and desires like manifesting a celebrity will not work since in order to manifest a specific person it is necessary that the specified person has the same vibration alignment as you.

3. Carry on with your life and work towards bettering yourself

Working on yourself is so much more important than you think. Do things that make you happy, start working out, eat healthy, play games, meet with your friends and family etc.

When doing things that make you happy you will emit a high level of positive vibrations that will make you likeable to others and you will overall become a better person.

4. Be Patient 

The duration of getting the desired outcome varies from person to person, so it is absolutely necessary for you to be patient while manifesting no matter how long it takes to get your boyfriend.

The more desperate you act, the more you’re blocking your desire from coming to you.

Have faith in the greater power of the universe, the things will definitely come to you eventually.

5. Stop worrying 

If you worry about something the universe will exactly give what you are focusing on, instead focus on the thing the universe wants to give you which is a loving relationship (a boyfriend).

6. Have Belief

If you recite affirmations you don’t believe in it is obvious that it won’t work, you have to blindly believe in the greater in order for this work.

FAQs about manifesting a boyfriend

Final Thoughts

Now that you know how to manifest a boyfriend, you can get started with it.

The key to successful manifestation is to believe, ask, and let go.

Have faith in the universe and it’s greater power and you will witness your desires coming true.

Comment down below if you have any query, I will try my best to help you.