Do you want to know if you can manifest a girlfriend using the Law of attraction ? Then the answer is YES, it is very much possible.
You can manifest anything you desire and if you didn’t know we are constantly manifesting our reality without even realising it
If you truly wish for something, the universe will always try to make that happen for you.
According to Verywellmind, “The law of attraction is a theory that states that good thoughts attract favourable events in one’s life, whilst negative thoughts attract bad outcomes.”
You can attract anything if you believe in it truly and not let negative thoughts affect you.
The law of attraction is so powerful that you can attract a person with a specific personality and looks.
In this article I’m going to tell you exactly step by step how to manifest a girlfriend in 5 simple steps using the law of attraction
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How to Manifest a Girlfriend (in 5 Simple Steps)
Step 1: Figure out why exactly you want a girlfriend and write it in a journal.
The first step to manifesting a girlfriend is to figure out why you exactly want one in the first place.
Is it because you are lonely ? or you feel left out because everybody in your friend circle has one ? Are you desperate ?
Our thoughts attract energies and according to the law of attraction mentioned before you will attract events that match your energy. (positive or negative)
If you are really desperate when you manifest things you attract negative energies.
So it is really important that you figure out with a clear mind about why you want a loving relationship and write in a journal.
Write a specific list of things that you want in a girl like her appearance, personality, where she lives etc. and why you want to be with her.
Some Examples for specifics:
- she is tall
- she is blonde or brunette
- she is kind
- she is sweet
- she has beautiful eyes
- she likes my friends
- she doesn’t live too far from me
- she‘s the same age as me or a year older
- she loves dogs
- she makes photos with me
- she wears rings
- she has a nice style
- she makes me happy
- she brings happy vibes
The reason and the state of mind you are in while writing this is really important because if you put out negative and desperate energy it is never going to work.
So make sure you are in a good place when you write these specifics in your journal.
Do things which make you happy or anything that keeps you away from negative energy.
Step 2: Become the person that you want and start imagining yourself in a relationship.
The next step to manifesting a girlfriend is to become the person that you want for yourself and start imagining how nice it feels to be in a relationship with her.
This means you should start cultivating the attributes you want in a potential girlfriend in order to be aligned with your desires.
The secret to manifestation of a girlfriend is to feel that you are in love even when you are not in a relationship, and the easiest approach to experience the emotion of being in love is to use visualisation, which is one of the best manifestation techniques out there.
Through imagination, you may sense the high vibrating energy of being in love. To do this exercise:
- Go somewhere quiet and where you cannot be irrupted.
- Relax your mind and take a few breaths before you start the visualization process.
- Visualize what you wrote down in the first and second step and imagine how nice it makes you feel.
Step 3: Getting rid of negative thoughts
The third step in manifesting a girlfriend is to stop the negative/limiting thoughts that might come to your mind about manifesting your love.
The whole point of law attraction is that we attract what we feel, so if you feel negative, you attract negative events and outcomes.
That’s why it is very important to believe in yourself and keep the sad and negative thoughts out of your mind.
The following are some of the most prevalent limiting thoughts that might keep you from manifesting a girlfriend:
- I’m ugly.
- I won’t get a girlfriend
- Why would anyone fall for me ?
- I ruin relationships
- No one likes me
- I won’t find my soulmate
- Law of attraction won’t work for me
This is actually very common and normal to feel these thoughts when you are starting out.
These thoughts occur because of your past experiences with relationships and people and they exist only to protect you from future pain.
The perfect solution to this is to believe that these thoughts are not true, these just exist to protect you from your past trauma.
Step 4: Recite affirmations for Love and get rid of the negative thoughts
Reciting affirmations help reduce the negative thoughts which will convert the negative energy into positive energy.
Affirmations are just positive phrases or statements that you should repeat to yourself in order to battle your limiting beliefs.
The followings are the affirmations for love that you should repeat to yourself, you can choose any one of these that you like:
- I’m worthy of a relationship
- I’m an attractive person
- It is easy to find love
- I forgive myself for past mistakes
- I will not enter in this relationship with a lack mindset
- I love myself unconditionally
- I am perfect the way I am
- My soulmate will come at the right time
- I’m attracting a trusting and loving relationship
You can watch this clip below to get more examples for affirmations.
These are just examples that you can use, but try writing affirmations yourself because no one knows your situation and circumstances better than yourself.
Reciting affirmations work best when you are in a good state of mind and you believe in what you are saying.
Choose a handful of affirmations that speak to you and imagine how you would feel if you followed through with the affirmation.
You’re on the right route to harnessing the power of positive affirmations if saying an affirmation makes you feel good.
Step 5: Surrender your desire and let the universe take care of it.
The final and the most important step in manifesting a girlfriend is to detach from your desire and let the universe take care of it.
The thing is if you put too much emphasis on your desire you bring out desperate energy instead put the emphasis on yourself and try to be a better person that will make you feel better.
The universe is powerful and it will make your wishes come true if you believe in the higher power.
Just be patient, and don’t dwell on it too much.
You allow the Universe to direct you to your partner when you let go of your expectations.
Even if your partner does not show as fast or in the manner that you had intended. Believe that the Universe’s plan always triumphs over yours and leads to the greatest good.
Things you should be aware of before manifesting a girlfriend
Love yourself first
Before you even start to manifest someone you it is important that you love yourself enough and you are at peace with yourself.
You can’t expect to give love to others if you don’t even love yourself and as law of attraction suggests we attract events that match with our energy.
Be patient and believe in the universe
Manifesting works differently for everyone. Some may manifest things quicker than others and for you it may take longer (2 years or more) and it is perfectly fine.
Just have faith in the universe, and keep working on bettering yourself and making yourself happy, the things will come to you eventually.
Be realistic with your expectations
Going overboard with your expectations will also hinder your manifestation. For Example, manifesting a celebrity who is way out of your reach.
This will encourage more limiting thoughts because you may think it is very unlikely to be in a relationship with a celebrity and this will lead to your manifestation not to work.
Expect realistic things and don’t put too much emphasis on it.
Carry on with your life
Carry on with your life and don’t think too much about getting this desired person the more you think about this the more desperate you become.
And the whole point of manifestation is to not be desperate, so by carrying on with your life you are in a way surrendering your desire to the universe.
FAQs regarding manifesting a girlfriend
Can you manifest a relationship with a specific person?
You can manifest a relationship with a specific person only if that person has the same vibrational alignment as you.
It is true that you have to be as specific as possible for the law of attraction to work but the more specific you become the more you limit your possibilities to get a partner.
Is it necessary to have a journal ?
No, it is not necessary to have a journal you can type the specifics on your phone as well.
What is the best time to manifest love?
The best time to manifest is in the morning even though we are constantly manifesting everything all day long.
How do you manifest a relationship fast?
You can’t manifest things fast. The universe does its thing at its own pace and you have to be patient.
When you want things fast it simply means you are being desperate and by doing this you will emit negative vibes which will eventually hinder your manifestation.
Now you know how to manifest a girlfriend, if you have any questions regarding this you can comment down below. I will try my best to help you out.
And remember the key to manifestation is to ask, believe and let go of it.
You are worth everything and you will get good things in your life.